With this past weekend having been Thanksgiving, I thought it appropriate to say ‘thank you’ to someone I met briefly and don’t even know his name.
I was reminded of this incident over the summer when we had our first guest visit us from Wales. Geraldine was from Cardiff, and her stay reminded me of a wonderful weekend I had there once, many many many years ago.
Those who know me, know I love rugby.
There was a time when I was leading my city life, and able to ‘get away’ and fund such things that I would have travelled for the rugby internationals. I went to Twickenham (London) and Murrayfield (Edinburgh) many times, but only once got to go to Cardiff. Back then the stadium in Cardiff was still known as Cardiff Arms Park.
I had travelled to Cardiff with my sister and her then boyfriend. We had no tickets but had been assured that was not a problem…. “you’ll get tickets, no problem”.
Well 5 minutes before kick-off none of us had a ticket.

Photo courtesy of The Angel Hotel, Cardiff website.
I remember standing in what I can only describe as an inside porch in the Angel Hotel which is directly opposite the stadium, with hundreds of people milling past me heading to the match. I was feebly asking the crowd if ‘anyone had a spare ticket’.
This all happened in the days before we had such phrases as ‘paying forward’ or ‘random acts of kindness’.
Suddenly a man stopped in front of me, asked me would I promise to use the ticket myself… which, of course, I said I would. He handed me a ticket, refused to take money, and disappeared into the crowd! I hardly had time to take in his features… I would not have recognised him five minutes later. He had given me a ticket to sit with all the Welsh Rugby referees …. basically one of the best seats in the house!
I doubt if he reads my blog, but anyway this is my way of saying ‘thank you’…. your kind gesture has never been forgotten.
Ireland lost that day …. but it is still a fond memory.
When we come back to visit you next time, you will have to explain Rugby to us. It is never televised in the U.S. unless it’s on satellite. I have seen it once or twice, but do not understand the rules. Rugby and Cricket have baffled me for years.
MK
You could become addicted…. like I am!!!!